It was surprisingly short. And surprisingly simple.
- Read books
- Talk to Lex
- Write in blog
- Go out with friends for dinner alone
- Go out with Mark alone
- Go to movies on my own
- Exercise class
Those are the things in my life I am not doing that I want to do. I note that 6 of the 7 are things On My Own. I think that is the theme. As much as I love being a mom, I am craving silence in my head and having my attentions elsewhere. Now he is crawling and seriously mobile, it will be even more of a challenge to keep my eyes on HIM at all times.
My eyes need to glaze over sometimes. Or stare at a big movie screen showing an independent film as I eat some smuggled bakery. My eyes need to focus on a juicy novel for 30 or more minutes at a stretch. My eyes need to see nightlife and humanity outside of the home after 6 p.m.
My ears need to be free of straining to hear a pip or a squeak from the baby monitor. Turning the volume down on all noise in the house. I need to be loud. I need to get out.
My brain needs to express the big and small revelations of my life. Witness and record some happenings. I have been too lax at letting the days turn to nights over and over without stopping to be grateful or to notice.
My body needs more than the endless pram walking I do each day. Up hills. With a heavy load. I need to wear Lycra and sweat.
Needing time as a couple. Needing time alone. Needing time with friends.
They say children grow well when their parents grow well.
I think it is time I do a bit of growing.